Week 4

 Dear Friends,

This week my learning from the class is very interesting but it involves a lot of different views from many around the world. To understand this first we will see the various tendencies and differences in males and females. These are just the views from the class as listed below:

Male                                                Female

Stronger in Physical                        Smarter in Social

Speaks later                                     Speaks Earlier than males

Spatial orientation                           Relationship orientation

Slightly Violent and Aggression      Softer and not aggressive in nature

Provider and Presides                       Nurture and care well

Some people say that men have more grey matter and women have white matter. But I feel they are two different beings biologically created. There might be differences but before coming to a conclusion about them we need to know some more things.

One of the essential things we need to learn in this world is the creation of God. Out of all the creations of God created man and women are great in the sight of God. From this, we can learn that they were two different beings created for a different purpose. This tells us that Gender is an essential part of the Eternal plan of God. Man and women might have different purposes to be created by God, but if we see there is no purpose if they are not joined together to become and make a family and bring the children. In life, children play a great role in the creation of God. They are the future of the world. They learn many great things from the family, society, country and as they grow they learn much more about what is happening globally. These might have a great influence on them as they grow. Sometimes might have not influenced but they will learn great things from social life, this is called culture. There are hundreds of cultures in this world. These cultures make a great difference in how we see people around us. We might not able to discover this unless we have seen the other world. If come to a judgment just seeing two locations is not enough. As we see others we learn many good things and bad things. As we keep the good things of the world and move on we can create a happy and strong family.

One such thing I am going to tell you is how we see a gay in society. Some say they are created differently by God, some say they are changed like that because of the development or change of hormones in them. While some say it is due to their thoughts or loneliness result or might have been changed due to abuse like that. Whatever it is, there might be several things for men or women to act or become like gay or lesbian. Something I learned from a book is, "Don't judge a person by their appearance, see them how they would become." Sometimes we might see people doing things accidentally or unknowingly, but we might come to the judgment without knowing them actually. Not everyone we see is gay or lesbian. Not everyone whom we see who have gay thoughts might end up becoming gay or lesbian.

In the life of a person, one thing which hurts more is how people see and treat them. For example, if we say to a kid you are amazing and you can become better and great. Even though they are not better in that situation they will come out of it with that positive encouragement. In the same way, if we start discouraging a person, even though they can become better after a while, might end up with psychological stress or pressure and tending towards negative.

I want to tell you one last thing: don't mislabel people before you come to know the complete truth ot what happened and what they are. Life is beautiful it gives many opportunities, don't miss the opportunity to change.

Have a great day.

A small disclaimer: Every person in this world is equally capable of doing everything. The things I shared with you about males and females are thoughts of different people. They don't need to be considered. They can change depending on different types of people.